His Name Was Wayne

My dadโ€™s birth certificate says Jonathan Wayne but for much of my life I nearly forgot that his legal name wasnโ€™t Wayne. Nobody ever called him Jonathan. He was always Wayne.

As a kid, sometimes salesmen would call his house asking for Jon and weโ€™d laugh at the sneaky attempt to disguise themselves as a friend or family member calling. It was a decent guess to think that someone named Jonathan might go by Jon โ€“ but my dad never โ€ฆ Read the rest

His SupraPubic Catheter Fell Out & The Catheter Site Almost Healed Shut

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What a day.

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Being A Cancer Caregiver For My Father Without Parenting Him

Last summer when my dad was told that he no longer was having success with hormone-related medication to treat his prostate cancer, he knew he was basically opting for comfort care from there on out. Thatโ€™s when he suggested that my boyfriend and I move in with him. With me working from home, I would be able to be with him almost all the time. He didnโ€™t need much practical help, he just didnโ€™t like being alone more than anything โ€ฆ Read the rest

PSA Level Over 100 โ€“ Prognosis

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Itโ€™s been a long time since Iโ€™ve been active on this blog. The main reason is that my dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer in September of 2018. Itโ€™s turned my word upside down. My priorities had to change. Now Iโ€™m i a palce where Iโ€™m ready to come back to blogging here at Frank Loves Beans more regularly even though life still feels chaotic a lot of the time. I plan to still blog about my pugs, the curly โ€ฆ Read the rest